Ten Practical Needs
of Patients and Their Families
Compiled by Chaplain John Ehman (email@example.com),
with the Penn Presbyterian Patient/Family Education Committee, for
General Staff Education (adapted here from the
original 2004 version)
May 16, 2007
- Patients should feel free to make known their questions or concerns about
dying and end-of-life care, and members of the care team should invite patients to
express what is on their minds. Discussions should be in an atmosphere that patients
find "safe." Privacy is often key. Also, requests to speak with particular physicians,
nurses, or other care team members may be of timely importance to patients as they process
their own needs and act upon them. Patients' questions about their illnesses and care
plans should be answered as quickly as possible, as the very idea that "time is short"
can make waiting burdensome.
- A specific concern shared by many patients is pain management, and staff
should be especially attentive to any question about pain.
- At every possible point, patients' rights to make decisions about their
medical care should be affirmed. The subject of Advance Directives should be raised
by appropriate staff in such a way as to be part of this affirmation. Issues of personal
control are frequently crucial to patients.
- Organ donation may be a sensitive topic, but many patients see in it a
validation of their capacity to help others--indeed, to accomplish the high ideal of
saving anotherís life--and family members may find comfort in the enduring legacy of
such a noble gift. Any discussion of donation should emphasize the honoring of patients
and their values and not merely the potential use of their organs. Questions should be
addressed by specially trained hospital staff or by representatives from the local
organ and tissue donor program.
- Patients and their families should be aware of specific resources for support
in the hospital, including Social Work, Pastoral Care, and the hospital's Ethics Committee.
If the patient is enrolled in hospice care, that will provide additional resources.
Patients should also be encouraged to involve their own networks of support, including
friends and clergy.
- Religious and cultural needs may be keenly felt, especially regarding rituals
of forgiveness, blessing and affirmation of one's value and identity. Patients may request
sacred objects, music, or a specific diet following religious or cultural traditions.
They may need to discuss issues of spirituality and meaning, often with religious
- Relationships may be much on patients' minds, and every effort should be
made to facilitate communication with friends and family members, if this is requested,
especially those at some distance and those with whom reconciliation is a concern.
Visiting hours may need to be modified to accommodate patients' contact with certain
people. Conversely, some patients may request more privacy--they may want time to "think
by themselves," or they may feel the need to be shielded from conflict with or between
- Patients may wish to have familiar items from home, including photographs or
a favorite blanket.
- Expect that emotions can run strong when touching upon dying and death,
including feelings of fear and sadness and anger. Expression of these feelings is
normal and generally healthy. Staff should try to hear these expressions--without
taking them personally--in terms of the needs of the patient.
- As a patient nears death, the family can have difficulty interpreting the changes
happening in their loved one's body. Appropriate members of the care team should ask if
there are questions about the dying process and offer a medical understanding. [For a
resource describing physical changes at the end of life, see:
As Our Bodies Die...
(PDF), based upon material in The American Medical Association's curriculum for Education for Physicians on End-of-Life Care.]
Also, staff should be attentive to their own emotional stress while
working with the dying and should consider how their network of personal support
may include colleagues, Pastoral Care, and Health System resources like the Employee
Assistance Program. Health professionals often need to grieve the death of patients
for whom they have cared.